The five people in my life that nurtured and cared about me as a child.
My mother and Dad( Madeline and James)-
They nurtured me and taught me right from wrong. They always told me that I could be anything I wanted to be in life all I had to do was follow rules to be successful. My mom and dad is the best thing ever because of their support in times I made mistakes in life and the encouragement to continue and not give up, when I thought it was rough and I could not go any more. Even if I made a mistake after my dad told me the right way to go and chose my own way he was there to support me all the way. My mom and dad taught me before I entered 1st grade because the school system did not offer Kindergarten. Therefore they were my preschool teachers. They taught me to write, spell, count, provided me with social and emotional skills by taking me around other children such as my cousins and their friends children. Although I was an only child they taught me to share and how to make friends with my peers.
My teachers in Middle School
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Left Upper- Mr. Chillis, Right upper- Mrs. Jones and bottom Mr.O"Neil |
Theses Teachers were a great inspiration in my life. I remember when it was my first day in Middle school I was in foreign country, in fact in Ipswich, England. My father was in the air force and I traveled a lot as a child. The first person I met was my bus driver, Mr. Chillis, he was so kind to me that first day of school because I was very scared to get on a bus to go to a school I had no idea where I was going. He invited me to sit up front and he talked me about things I liked to do and what I wanted to do when I grew up. He was very warm and showed how much he cared for me. When we arrived at school he reminded me that he would be back to get and not to worry he would not leave and when I got out of school he was there for me too. I know longer had the fear of riding a school bus. Then I met Mrs. Jones and she was very kind and supportive about my school work and feelings. She gave me a picture of her when I was promoted to 8th grade and on the back of the picture she wrote, "To Gwen, May you find lots of happiness and joy in the future." I really appreciated her encouragement and she demonstrated how much she cared about me. Then when I got to 8th grade I met Mr. O'Neil he was funny and made you enjoy learning. He always cared about what my thoughts were about anything. To him no question was a dumb one. He was my History teacher and that was one of my weak subjects but he allowed me to use my imagination to help me learn and it worked.
I know I was only to talk about five people in my life that influenced me and continues to impact my life, then I can not leave out my Aunt Dorothy and two of my favorite Uncles. I will place them altogether as one group.
My Aunt and two of my Uncles
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Aunt Dorothy |
My aunt Dorothy, whom is my favorite aunt and the one that help make me be who I am. She helped me discover how to defend my self when needed. Gave me support and hugs as I grew, to let me know it will be alright no matter what situation occurred. She always had a listening ear when I had no one to talk too. She was there to hear every word and calm me down. She has been my inspiration in life by telling me," that no matter the obstacles that come your way, if I can do it so can you." I admire and respect her today for her will to accomplish her goals and succeed anything she wanted to do.
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My Uncle Lawrence |
My Uncle Lawrence has always been there to teach me to use the proper words when I got angry and to handle my battles with words by using how I felt about the situation not the person. He helped me when I needed a shoulder to cry on. He was not the hugger type of person but you always knew how much he cared by his smile and laugh. He always took time to play games and dance with me as a child. He would tell me that things are never that bad as you think just think about tomorrow and what is coming next.
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Uncle David a true OHIO STATE Fan |
Then comes my Uncle David who played with me as child. He would pretend to eat my mud pies, play school with me and my dolls and play sports. he loved sports and he taught me how to play baseball, football and we played tennis together. He was an outdoors man and he loved to take me to the park and run with me. When I was young he was my best friend until he moved to California. I was not very happy but he stayed in touch and every time I talked to him he would always asked "how are you doing and what are you doing to get closer to what you want in life?" I loved hearing that question because it always made me reexamine my thoughts of the future. He came back to Ohio when I grew up with a family of my own and he still said to me the same thing. He told me before he passed away that, "you are never to old to learn." He gave me the inspiration to go back to college and get my Masters Degree and here I am today working on my degree. If he was still living I know he would be very proud of me.